Secure friendships buffer single men from porn-related shame and depression

Friendships may protect single men from depression linked to porn use and moral conflict, finds study.

Why it matters

  • Moral conflict around pornography can lead to sexual shame and loneliness, increasing depression risk.
  • Secure friendships can mitigate these negative psychological effects.

By the numbers

  • Study involved 167 single men aged 19–30.
  • Moral incongruence linked to increased sexual shame, loneliness, and depression.
  • Secure friendships reduced the impact of moral conflict on depression.

The big picture

  • Pornography use is common, but moral conflict can cause significant distress.
  • Supportive friendships play a crucial role in mental health, acting as a buffer against negative effects.

What they're saying

  • Researcher Brandon Waggoner: "Friendships aren’t just ‘nice to have’—they can make a big difference in someone’s wellbeing."
  • Comments highlight concerns about shame and repression linked to religious beliefs.

Caveats

  • Study relies on self-reported data, which may be biased.
  • Cross-sectional design limits causal inferences.
  • Focused only on single men; may not generalize to other groups.

What’s next

  • Future research could explore longitudinal effects and other protective factors like self-compassion.
  • Interventions to strengthen friendships and secure attachment styles may be beneficial.